Holidays 2024
December 2024
Felix ano novo (Happy New Year in Portuguese),
2024 started off well. I flew to Colorado in early January to have fun with my great niece and nephew. My favorite thing to do with them is the lazy river at the rec center. At seven and five years old, it won’t be long before they’ll be able to do this on their own.
I scuba dived in Thailand and the Philippines in late January. A dive shop invited me on a live aboard boat at a discount to one of my favorite dive places and in my favorite way—on a liveaboard. Liveaboards have everything right there—the dive sites, your dive gear, cabin, meals, snacks, dive buddies, etc. Realizing I’d be flying through the Philippines, a country I’ve always wanted to experience scuba diving, made it that much more appealing. This is the first time I’d seen thresher sharks, known for their long tails. Thanks to generous underwater photographers I can lose myself in my dive and still reminisce on what I’d seen afterwards.
Back in Minnesota, the warm weather was conducive for training to walk the Portuguese Camino. I trained and celebrated my 70th birthday in March. (How did I get to be this age, and when will my mind catch up to this age?) I’d read Shirley MacLaine’s book about the Camino over 20 years ago, then Paulo Cuelo’s The Pilgrimage and El Camino years later. When the movie, The Way with Marin Sheen, came out I was hooked. A friend, also named Vicki, was to join me on this bucket list experience. We committed by booking our plane reservations based on the advice of pilgrims, aka hikers, from the Minnesota chapter of American Pilgrims on the Camino. A mentor from this group who had walked the same route offered invaluable advice.
We chose to start the Portuguese Camino in Porto, meaning I’d be walking at least 165 miles to the Santiago de Compostela Basilica with the recommended 10% of my body weight in my backpack. I overpacked. Ugh. We stayed in albergues, large rooms with bunk beds and communal bathrooms. Those that included towels and linens became my choice early on as I hated the my sleeping bag liner. There was little advice on trying out your bedding, unlike that about footwear. Previous walkers stressed training in your shoes to avoid blisters. Typically it was younger pilgrims who had their feet bandaged from all their blisters.
Thinking we’d be walking about 15-20 miles a day, my training commenced. Six to eight-mile days strengthened my Camino legs, with several longer days of 15 to 16 miles, in addition to my normal workout classes. People would stop to ask if I was training for something. One was curious because she intends to walk the Portuguese Camino at some point. Another had just come back from Porto. It’s a small world.
We met people from all over—Germans, Russians, Croatians, English, Ukrainians. We were halfway through before I met any Americans. In the afternoons and evenings, we’d visit with people we’d seen on the Camino. My Minnesotan friend developed a knee problem after the second day so she took a train to just before the 100 kilometer distance from Santiago to ensure she’d get her Pilgrim certificate. That meant I was on my own, giving me the opportunity to walk by myself and with others I’d meet along the way. I walked with Josie from England for several days. Our conversation flowed, exactly what I’d hoped for.
I dedicated my Camino to my sister, but hoped my purpose for walking the Camino would surface along the way. When I finally stared up at the Cathedral, I asked myself why I was there. Why had I done this? The answer surprised and dismayed me. Apparently my purpose is to reveal itself when I walk the Camino Frances, the 500 mile Camino I’d read about that starts in France and crosses the Pyrenees. Maybe you’ll read about that in my 2026 missive.
Instead of walking all the way to the ocean, Vicki and I took our “vacation”, bussing to the seaside towns of Muxia and Finisterre, sometimes spelled Fisterre. How nice to relax, imbibe the waves on the beach, and walk with a lighter load. Back in Porto, we learned about port wine, toured an elegant, historic theater, and enjoyed a Fado concert along the water.
My transition back to life in the US was short, one day, before heading to Cleveland to speak at a Safety at Sea seminar. So much for the meditative mood of the Camino. At least I’d prepared my presentations prior to walking the Camino. It was a busy weekend of learning, setting off flares, and paddling in the water with inflated life vests and emergency life rafts. I stayed another couple of days to enjoy time with my sailing friends and got in some hiking.
May was spent catching up with home town friends and attending to my neglected townhouse before heading up to Bayfield Wisconsin for another season of sailing instruction. I split my time between teaching for an American Sailing Association school and local charter company for which I might simply be a tour guide for the 22 Apostle Islands. I’ve made so many friends at the marina over the years that I decided to host an impromptu dock party on Labor Day, a celebration everyone agreed is to become an annual event.
In September I planned to swim with dolphins and scuba dive in the Red Sea. I aborted the trip at the last minute, literally. I was at the airport to check in when I decided I just couldn’t go. I’d been in Boston helping my sister who was at an all-time low, suffering from severe depression and general anxiety. It was more important to me to support Chris and and my brother-in-law, Rick, than travel. I’ve learned a lot about the mental health industry this year. It has a long way to go, even in Boston. At the Massachusetts General Brigham Women’s Geriatric Psychiatry Clinic patients are only seen once a month, not helpful for someone suffering. Hearing a psychiatrist say most anti-depressants drugs have suicidal ideation as a side effect made me question the whole industry. All her former psychiatrist wanted to do was give Chris more meds. It took time, but we found a psychiatrist who owns a small practice and is able to see Chris several times a week. She has been depressed and anxious for years, the result of being brought up in an alcoholic environment, and spiraled down when my brother-in-law was diagnosed with prostrate cancer over three years ago. Fortunately that is under control.
I spent most of the fall in Boston, leaving to take care of my great niece and nephew at the end of October while their parents took a short anniversary trip—15 years! It was great to enjoy the Halloween festivities, experiencing a haunted house, watching a magic show and each of us dressing up as an Inside Out character for Trick-or-Treating.
On Thanksgiving Day I flew from Boston to Cape Verde. I thought long and hard about taking this trip but I’d committed to help former sailing students, now friends, sail their 40’ Leopard catamaran from Cape Verde to Barbados months ago. Four people, 2100 miles, 13 days across the Atlantic. Another bucket list experience. We spent several days preparing, provisioning, having a part made for the boat, and seeing a bit of Sao Vicente. Cape Verde is its own country with a very African feel. Our days of sailing were spent reading, doing puzzles, watching movies, writing, i.e. my annual missive and watching the spinnaker do its job. Our view was sky and sea, seldom other boats. We had perfect weather for which I’m eternally grateful to my weather angels. Our trip was uneventful, my favorite word when sailing.
From sand to snow, I arrived in Boston just before Christmas to celebrate with family. I hope you have had a happy and fun-filled holiday season which continues throughout 2025.